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Communicating With A Friend Who Is Dying

The end of life can pose many challenges for patients, families, caregivers and friends. Here is some advice for individuals wondering what to say and what to do when a friend is nearing the end of life. This information was posted on Arbor Hospice’s blog.

Talking to people with a terminal diagnosis can be uncomfortable. It is natural to come up blank on what to say at such an emotional time. People hesitate to reach out because they do not want to upset friends and/or family members, but you are really needed now, more than ever. So take a soft approach, listen and let your friend take the lead on the conversation.

What do you say to people who know their time is limited? Arbor Hospice Spiritual Care Coordinators offer these suggestions:

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· Be with them physically. Presence is often more importance than finding the right words to say. As death approaches, your friend may not want to speak. Holding their hand, reaching or just being present is often reassuring.

· Talk about the past and things you two did together.Go down memory lane, revisiting a particular joyful or humorous experience, or ask for some stories from the past, as a way to remember. Even though fate cannot be changed, you can positively impact the days that are remaining. Make the moments count. Even if a response is unlikely, the friend will be encouraged by a good memory.

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· Thank your friend for his/her companionship.Assure your friend of your continued support and care for his/her family.

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